We are all inside the matrix and are being controlled by the machine. Some of us understand how all of this works and others never will. One way to know you are breaking free of the order is when you can listen to someone talk without butting in and trying to sell them your opinion. When you can just listen and absorb what they are saying without judgment. Many will parish in this matrix and many will never open their eyes to the truth because they have not a clue as to how it all works.